Dating coach reviewed hinge profile, said replace photos except dog
- Maya, a 27-year-old woman living in New York City, agreed to have her dating profile analyzed by an expert for Insider’s Dating App Clinic.
- Clinical psychologist Dr Michael Tobin told Insider that Maya should trade in all of her photos for candid ones, except for the photo of her and her dog.
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Maya Vega is a 27-year-old woman living in New York City who is looking to meet new people and possibly date Bumble, Hinge, and Tinder.
“I try to convey that I’m fun to be around, approachable, that I love dogs, have a good style and that I’m very open to meeting new people,” said Maya.
She volunteered to have her profile reviewed by Dr. Michael Tobin, clinical psychologist and author of “Riding the Edge: A Love Song to Deborah,” for Insider’s Dating App Clinic.
Tobin told Insider that Maya should change her bio and photos to improve her chances of matching the right people.
Maya should include more candid photos in her profile – like the one of her and her dog
Maya has a variety of photos in her dating profile, many with friends. Because her photos aren’t themed, Tobin said the wide array of images might confuse people as to what she’s looking for on the app.
Tobin said Maya should include fewer photos posed with friends and more candid photos to show off her personality. A good example of this is the photo with Maya and her dog.
“This photo makes it look like she has a good heart and loves,” Tobin said.
Tobin wouldn’t change any of Maya’s deal breakers. Instead, she should add her personality traits.
Maya said her biggest deal breakers were Republicans, financiers and picky eaters. According to Tobin, she shouldn’t change anything about them.
“I wouldn’t delete any,” Tobin said. “The message is clear.”
As for Maya’s biography on Hinge, Tobin said it sends a great message to future friends or partners.
“I get the impression from her bio that she’s easy to get around, friendly, a great loveseat and most likely has a good sense of humor,” Tobin said. “The fact that she loves dogs tells me that she can give love.”
What Tobin would add to Maya’s profile is more information about herself. On Hinge, she said the perfect way to ask him out was to “skip small talk” and give him a time and place for a date.
Tobin said Maya should include her personality traits that reflect this energy.
“She could be spontaneous, adventurous, and most likely kind and caring,” Tobin said. “I would add that.”
Overall, Maya should clarify what she is looking for on her profile.
Maya has a strong profile overall. Tobin would just recommend more candid photos and clarify what exactly she’s looking for on Hinge, Tinder, and Bumble.
“Her photos communicate an ambivalence. I don’t know what she wants, and I don’t know if she knows what she wants,” Tobin said.